So, I have made some progress. I decided against notching, or drilling. I was able to find PDP/DW lugs that worked out. The top floor tom lugs are actually snare lugs with 1/2 the receivers and clips removed. ALL of the hoops are Sonor. I don't know how I managed that. The bass hoops are a happy surprise. Before they were on the drum, they DID NOT look like they matched. But, you guys tell me, if they're "off", it's not by much. I don't want to sand them, I think they blend pretty nicely. The tom hoops are triple flanged, the 12s are new and the 14s are used, but they look great. I'm waiting on gaskets for 8 of the 12" lugs and the bass drum batter head, and I'm done I think?! Evans EC2s on the toms. That's actually a Remo hazy snare side for the floor reso. Remo clear under the 12. That's a single ply Aquarian bass reso in "video gloss white". I bought a barely used SKII superkick batter, that hasn't arrived yet. I had trouble finding PDP/DW tension rods that actually WORKED with the lugs. I sent some back. I ended up buying PDP/DW "standard" tension rods for the toms and I purchased "standard" tension rods for the bass. And then had to purchase standard receivers. Which I'm changing them all basically. I wanted new rods anyway--couldn't find the right ones without paying way too much.